What if I met my Holy Grail? How would I know that it was her?
When I’ve heard older couples tell the story of how they met, I’m usually told something to the effect of, “I knew the moment I laid eyes on her that she was The One.”
What the hell man? I’ve had that feeling (or something surprisingly similar) two distinct times in my life, and so far that feeling has yet to fulfil itself!
So then, when I’m asked, “Would you give up everything for this girl?” Well, how can I answer that question? If I gave up everything, to be able to have one touch at that Holy Grail (and there’s no telling if its even the true grail), then I would be giving up my entire life and all that I’ve worked for. Once I do that, I wouldn’t be attractive to the person that I want anyway.
But then, if she was the true Grail, giving up everything and being stripped of my defenses would be worth everything to be able to hold her.
So I go back to my original question: how will I know when I meet her?